David Calabrese David Calabrese

Authors and books

AUTHORS

Paulo Freire Lev Vygotsky T. Berry Brazelton Stanley I. Greenspan


John Dewey Erik Erikson Jean Piaget Maria Montessori


Rudolph Steiner Bruce Perry Alicia F. Lieberman Daniel Levitin


Dan Gartrell Anna Jean Ayres

Louise Bates Ames Barbara Rogoff


Lilian G. Katz Evangeline H. Ward

Robin Karr-Morse Meredith S. Wiley


Beverly Falk Megan Blumenreich

Sally Goddard David Elkind


Daniel K. Meier Carolyn Edwards

Lella Gandini Amelia Gambetti


George E. Forman Richard Louv

Marylou Hyson Meredith Francesca Small

Dr. Susan Rogers and Ogi Ogas



Books

Small, M. (1998). Our babies, ourselves: How biology and culture shape the way we parent. New York: Anchor. Sonnek, S. M. (1999)

Shore, R. (1997). Rethinking the brain: New insights into early development. New York: Families and Work Institute.

Gopnik, A., Meltzoff, A. N., & Kuhl, P. K. 1. (1999). The scientist in the crib: minds, brains, and how children learn. New York, William Morrow & Co.

Kaye, M., & Meunier-Fiebelkorn, M. (2006). Let’s go to kindergarten: A family guide to school readiness.

Davis & Keyser. (2012) Becoming the Parent You Want to Be: A Sourcebook of Strategies for the First Five Years. Harmony/Rodale 


Bodrova, E., & Leong, D. (2007). Tools of the mind: The Vygotskian approach to early childhood education (2nd ed.). Pearson/Merrill Prentice Hall


Freire, P., Ramos, M. B., Macedo, D. P. 1., & Shor, I. (2018). Pedagogy of the Oppressed. 50th anniversary edition. New York, Bloomsbury Academic 


James, A. (1991). Miseducation: Preschoolers at risk

Feeney, S., & Freeman, N. K. (2018). Ethics and the early childhood educator: using the NAEYC code. Third edition. Washington, D.C., National Association for the Education of Young Children.


Tobin, J. J. (2011). Preschool in three cultures revisited: China, Japan, and the United States. Chicago, IL: University of Chicago Press


Brazelton, T. B. & Greenspan, S. I. (2000). The irreducible needs of children: What every child must have to grow, learn, and flourish. Cambridge, MA: Da Capo Press

Hyson, M. C.: (1994). The emotional development of young children: Building an emotion-centered curriculum.

Experimenting with the world: John Dewey and the early childhood classroom

Cuffaro - Teachers College Press, Teachers College, Columbia University - 1995

Edwards, Carolyn P. (1993). The hundred languages of children : the Reggio Emilia approach to early childhood education. Norwood, N.J. :Ablex Pub. Corp.,


Gartrell, D. (2004). The power of guidance: Teaching social-emotional skills in early childhood classrooms. Belmont, CA: Delmar Cengage Learning


William A. Corsaro. 2003. We're Friends, Right?: Inside Kids' Culture


Healy, J. M. (1987). Your child's growing mind: a parent's guide to learning from birth to adolescence. Garden City, N.Y., Doubleday


Emergent Curriculum in Early Childhood Settings: From Theory to Practice 2nd Edition ; Author(s). Susan Stacey ; Publisher. Redleaf Press

Curriculum in early childhood education: re-examined, reclaimed, renewed

Mueller & File - Routledge - 2020


Sensory integration and self-regulation in infants and toddlers: helping very young children interact with their environment, Williamson et al. - Zero to Three - 2001


The power of observation, Jablon et al. - Teaching Strategies : National Association for the Education of Young Children - 2007


Learning and Teaching Early Math: The Learning Trajectories Approach, Clements - Taylor & Francis Ltd - 2024


Piaget's theory of cognitive and affective development, Wadsworth - Pearson/A and B - 2006


The emotional life of the toddler, Lieberman - Simon & Schuster - 2018


Ghosts from the Nursery: Tracing the Roots of Violence

by Robin Karr-Morse and Meredith S Wiley

Perry, B. D., & Szalavitz, M. (2007). The boy who was raised as a dog. Basic Books

Magic trees of the mind: how to nuture your child's intelligence, creativity, and healthy emotions from birth through adolescence

Hopson & Diamond - Plume - 2014


Last Child in the Woods: Saving our Children from Nature-Deficit Disorder, Louv - Atlantic Books Ltd - 2013


The power of questions: a guide to teacher and student research, Falk & Blumenreich - Heinemann - 2005


A teacher's window into the child's mind: and papers from the Institute for Neuro-Physiological Psychology

Goddard - Fern Ridge Press - 1996


Healthy Sexuality Development: a Guide for Early Childhood Educators and Families - Softcover

Chrisman, Kent


Narrative Inquiry in Early Childhood and Elementary School: Learning to Teach, Teaching Well

Sisk-Hilton, Stephanie, Meier, Daniel R.


Ataya, R. L. (2007). Policy and technical considerations for classroom assessment. In P. Jones, J. F. Carr, & R. L. Ataya (Eds.), A pig don’t get fatter the more you weigh it: Classroom assessments that work (pp.71-86). Teachers College Press.

Your three-year-old, friend or enemy, by Louise Bates Ames and Frances L. Ilg

Ames & Ilg - 1976. Your four-year-old, wild and wonderful, by Louise Bates Ames and Frances L. Ilg

Ames & Ilg - Delacorte Press - 1976. Your Five-Year-Old: Sunny and Serene

Ames - Random House US - 2012

Educational change in international early childhood contexts: crossing borders of reflection, Kroll - Routledge - 2015

The cultural nature of human development Barbara Rogoff, Rogoff - TPB - 2010

Levitin, D. J. (2024). I Heard There Was a Secret Chord: Music as Medicine (First edition). W. W. Norton & Company. 

Rogers, S., & Ogas, O. (2022). This is what it sounds like: what the music you love says about you. ; Chicago / Turabian

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“I matter”, Time, and Space

It all begins with an idea.

After years of study, observation, parenting, teaching, and directing I have landed upon foundational truths that apply to all people, especially young children. By working with young children through these principles, they develop into active, happy agents of experience, rather than simply passive recipients of experience.

"I matter" 

Each child is right from their perspective. We are charged to explore how each child matters in every situation.

"Time and Space." Give children all the time and space they need to evolve, develop, learn, grow. This is not a race, but rather a nurturing journey, and the natural world that surrounds us, in every way, stands in evidence of that process. Some grasses grow quickly, while trees take years. (Redwoods and Yew trees, thousands!) Some bugs live for days, other animals over a century. The natural world is our greatest and most reliable teacher. Being both wise and understanding, it is also ruthless and unforgiving. It gives and takes without prejudice or judgment. It is "Being." In this way, the children find an immediate relationship within it, for they are also, "Being."

The order of learning that takes place at little earthlings (as a child-led program under the guidance of teachers) is the following;

Children teach each other the most, (this is what we call socialization, conditioning, mimicry / imitation, and social-emotional development.) In a mixed age program like ours, the age ranges from 2.10 months old to 5.5. This is a huge spread developmentally, and each child in turn benefits greatly from contributing to each other's development, understanding, and processing of self, each other and reality.

The environment is 2nd, (in our case we are most fortunate to have the natural world of Golden Gate Park and Ocean Beach!) The information and lessons of nature that get telegraphed, transmitted, conveyed, absorbed and assimilated into the experience, identity and journey of young children far exceeds any capability humans possess. From being on uneven ground (which constantly stimulates the vestibular and proprioceptive systems,)  to reflective meditative moments and friendships, the wisdom and intelligence of nature is All. It's completely magical!

Teachers are 3rd - we are there to support and facilitate this precious time in a little earthlings development, when the majority of significant brain development, self identity and esteem, relationship building, views of reality and perceptions of the world are becoming hard-wired.

At Little Earthlings, teachers never use the command, "Use your words," to a child struggling to express complex feelings and thoughts. Rather, we provide the words that we think would support them in getting their needs met, such as:

  • Can I have a turn when you're done? 

  • I’ll let you know when I’m ready. 

  • I need some space. 

  • Can you let me know when you're ready? 

  • When you order me it makes me feel like this... 

  • When you ask me (instead of ordering me) I want to help as much as I can.

  • When you say the words, "Excuse me," adults pay attention right away, etc..." 

Teachers are also here to support conflict resolution. This requires in-person exchange of ideas, for every situation is contextual and unique. Children tend to use whatever tools they know will work. Those tools, yelling, hitting, biting, etc, are inappropriate but effective which is why they use them. It is our responsibility to facilitate other ways that work, which respect everyone's right "to matter." This is brain and language development, processing and understanding.

This is where the name "little earthlings," comes from. Understanding that these beings, these human organisms are new to this planet, allows us to proceed with the attitude of reminding and remembering, always,

 "Oh right! You just arrived here on this planet. Let me explain to you how the species has arrived at social contracts and agreements about how to conduct ourselves and acceptable behaviors. Then YOU can decide how you want to proceed.”

By providing and presenting the world through "Cause and Effect," "If you do this, that might/could happen," the children arrive at their own determinations. They feel like the solution came from them. And indeed it does.

This is experiential learning and agency working hand in hand. Synaptic connections formed, fused and constructed through sensory integration and physical memories. Learning that is immediate and actual, rather than rote memorization which is often fleeting.

Having said all of this, we (the adult caregivers) must also acknowledge that we are human after all, and prone to triggers and mis-takes. Very likely, personal experiences of our own childhoods involved,

  • Shaming, “Why didn't you know how to do this thing you're not supposed to know how to do yet!”

  • Betrayal, translated as, “You don't matter.”

  • Abandonment, which can present as, “I will not respond to you until you learn to behave in ways you haven't learned yet.”

These are NOT welcome in our program.

Furthermore, it is imperative that when we, as parents, educators and instructors "mess up," (react rather than respond, operate from the brain stem instead of the prefrontal cortex) that we "follow up," by modeling what it means to be a human being. 

  • How do we responsibly work with life's unexpected moments? 

  • How do we responsibly reflect upon our own conduct in a way that models for young children how to reflect upon theirs? 

It is NEVER too late to "go back" and address something that you "wished you had done differently." It conveys your awareness of the power of your actions and recognizes that we are always learning and growing, (evolving from gross to more sophisticated ways of Being.) We can create new memories through sincerity in the moment. We can repair.

It also conveys that we Learn most from these moments, rather than when life is seemingly moving along in harmony and equilibrium. This approach, of greeting and extracting gifts from hardship rather than the unrealistic expectation of avoiding hardship, is an incredibly valuable ability to acquire at any age, especially these foundational ones. One that gives instead of takes, heals instead of harms.

This is the practice of Little Earthlings as partially described herein. It is a reflective practice that takes as its' most fundamental tenant, the same curiosity, wonder, newness, and inquisitive attitude towards life, that is inherent in every authentically "new" experience. As it happens, each moment in a young child's life is exactly that, an authentically "new" experience, and should be regarded as such. This begins to evolve once they hit 5 years, but remains in part for the rest of our lives. (the Heartwood.)

Our ability to maintain connection with that, colors how we regard our journey here on earth.

As adults and educators, tapping into that "piece," allows us to work with children through empathy and compassion, understanding and authenticity. Life, like birth, is miraculous and painful, a cycle of abundance, depletion and replenishing that only creation and life can provide and exact.

 Knowing child development and early childhood education informs developmentally appropriate practices from inappropriate. These humans are not the same as fully matured humans. They require 25 years of incubation to become so.

Working with 3-5 year old brains, nervous systems, bodies, consciousnesses, senses, perceptions, perspectives, awarenesses, requires understanding where each child is in their developmental evolution. Moreover, these areas develop both independently and holistically, requiring an enormous effort on our behalf, to make a study of each child,

  • individually,

  • in relationships,

  • and as part of a family, (who after all are their 1st and most important teachers.)

The family culture, the friendship culture, the school culture, the societal culture, all combine to create "Understanding," of one's self and position within it. We consider this reality. We will, in our first 5 years, form ideas about reality that will always remain with us.

Our ability to meet young children where they are, and to not expect them to be anywhere else is called Responsiveness! The first stage of life is Trust vs Mistrust, and imperative for the survival of the species. Responsiveness creates trust, and therefore it is our first duty as educators to always observe, pay attention and respond to the children in the program as prioritized over everything else. Being responsive is the greatest tool we have to consistanly convey to them that they “They Matter.”

The first 5-7 years of human development is like the heartwood of a tree. The hard wiring that informs the rest of our lives. That which informs and remains as our essential selves, though we may not have direct consciousness of it. As such, these 3-6 hours a day are the children's time. It is their time to discover who they are. To become.

This is not my school, it is theirs. This is not my program, it is theirs. The window of childhood is so brief, and the opportunities to build happy memories of it, of ourselves, of our relationships with others of the earth, of life, will soon be replaced with the institutional world and all of its rules, laws and complexities. 

It is my hope that the work we do at little earthlings forest school will potently and positively remain with these children throughout their lives, well preserved deep in their own sense of self, empowering them with the strength and determination they will need to navigate whatever future awaits them.

We are the guardians and curators of this special time within this program. I am extremely honored, appreciative, and humbled that this is what I do.

Wow, I realize this is a lot! However, it is important to me that people understand the significance of what we do, what these years are, and to champion the social perception of our role as educators for these little earthlings., because “THEY MATTER.”

warmly,

David

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The Origin Story of little earthlings

It all begins with an idea.

David Calabrese discusses how his own childhood lead him to found Little Earthlings, a passion project to instill agency, choice, and guided risk-taking in early childhood education.

Growing up, the wilderness outside David’s family home became his school and playground. With the other neighborhood kids in tow, David would spend hours outside making forts and playing in the nearby creek until the sound of his aunt’s cowbell called the children home for dinner.

This podcast covers

  • Why experiential knowledge is so important for children

  • The impact that autonomy and choice have on a child’s sense of identity and self-esteem

  • The benefits of weighing risk vs. hazard in a supportive environment for growing children

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Equity in the Outdoors

It all begins with an idea.

Outdoor educators can play a great role inside society too. Here are two essays about inclusion.

Preschool girls are less likely to be taken outside by their parents than boys their age. This essay explores the importance of closing the gender gap in outdoor playtime.

There’s a common misconception that black people don’t love wild places. Latria Graham, a southerner with deep connections to farms, rivers, and forests, writes in Outside Magazine that the problem isn’t desire but access.

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